While dating, he was consistent, respectful, always made plans in advance and followed through. It means compromise that, for some people at certain points in their life, isn't always worth it in the end. If you choose yourself now, you can wholeheartedly and healthfully choose someone else, somewhere down the line. Project Zero. Whilst the initial red flags are there early on, we all have some baggage that we carry, so reacting to the first one or two red flags as a knee-jerk reaction would be almost bordering on relationship paranoia.
In fact, this is largely the reason people coupled up without really considering their compatibility—survival.
Is Defining a Relationship Necessary?
Now's the time to exorcise that fear of making a terrible joke, or accidentally snorting in public. I turned up at the appointed meeting place to find my would-be suitor sweating profusely and eating a banana! But I am still here reading! SaraK on March 9, at 6: It really depends what it is you are looking for.